How To Manifest Your Perfect Partner

Many of us want a companion who we can connect with on an emotional, physical, mental and spiritual level, but the search for that can often lead to confusion, heart break and disconnection with what we truly desire in a partner. I thought I would share with you how I manifested my twin flame by simply alligning myself with the universe. This technique can also be used to manifest qualities and behaviours in current relationships.

Set Your Intention: Sit down and think about what it is that you desire in your ideal partner, a soul you could truly feel connected to, someone who would make you feel emotionally fulfilled, don't think too hard just make a list of qualities you want and don't want, simple as that. When we want to attract our other half we often start labeling the wrong people as "the one" ignoring all red flags, this list might help you remember not only what you truly desire but also the boundaries and standards you desire for yourself.

LOA Technique: Pick a law of attraction tenchnique that works for you best, forexample some people like scripting, and some prefer visualization, I used both. Start by finding a quiet and peaceful space, meditate for a few moments, until you feel aligned and calm. Then visualize or script, meeting your S/O. Emphasize feeling happy and in love, try to tune into that frequency ( this can also be a specific person )

Forget It: Now that you have set your intention and decided what you desire it's time to let it go, don't think about it too much, don't doubt it, just know that it will happen in divine timing. Spend time on yourself, taking care of yourself, raising your vibration and healing from any blockages you feel you might need to work on. When I wrote my list down in 2019, after feeling constantly rejected, betrayed and hurt in romantic relationships I looked at my list and thought it was too much or I was writing up a fictional character, it felt silly. I did not let that change what I desired, it even came to a point where I felt like I didn't have a twin flame, ironically when I decided to stop trying to manifest and gave it all up to the universe, the resistance went down and I manifested him.

Match the Vibe: To Catch the vibe, we attract what we are, because we are energy and everything around us is energy. Forexample how complaing people always seem to continue complaining, because when we focus on negative we attract more of it towards us, the universe doesn't hear what we want or don't want it only hears what frequency we are in, what energy we put out, another example is when we genuinely smile at someone and they can't help but smile back. Spend time with people who make you feel loved, friends and family, go on those dates be open to meeting people but also follow your intuition and not lose sight of what you desire. Raise your vibrational frequency, this means try to spend time feeling the emotions that you would feel AS IF you were already with the twin flame.

Patience: This process takes time, how much? there's no knowing, it all depends on how aligned you are and how good you are at keeping yourself in check when it comes to resistance. Letting go is the hardest part, and the most important. When I met my twin flame, I struggled quite a bit to accept love, I was not at all aligned and felt the universe was rushing my spiritual and personal growth and like I mentioned earlier I had given up, but as I was waiting for a sign that I was in fact worthy of love, there he was again ( literally knocking at my door ). There will be good days and bad, it all comes down to what we decide to emphasize and attract in return. A great way to shift your thoughts and elevate your vibe is to practice gratitude ans grounding techniques.

It truly all comes down to the energy we decide to tune into, we will never be perfect, life isn't about being perfectly aligned at all times. It's about knowing what you want and working on yourself to become the very energy that you desire to attract. Hope this helps!